Personal life: Every man has personal life with family and him.
Personal life is system where we grow and we grow others When friend office are like public undertaking
the control is with the government like wise the one person control is with the family.
Family is not dictatorship, hierarchy, idealistic etc.. family is mini ecosystem of a man
every one should contribute themselves in minimum as a basic package .
A cannot be stopped since B cannot.
B cannot be stooped welcome well wish since B is noble.
Family is socialism only to children not to Adults more than 21
A trust can have thousand children for that
trust own children cannot be spoiled to keep the trust in control.
What are all the qualities needed in personal life?
All cannot to all relationship roles but one should do minimum three roles starting from saint.
Values play major role in all parts of life. But values is not tested by avoiding lunch and testing what he or she is doing for dinner. Values has time and denial underplay by both side.
Manners, obedience are as per the society but you can create new as well if former is false.
Every adult should be economically balanced to free the wings.
Education is must and it is not family compulsion to make them doctorate until that family should fund.
We need a nest as per ones own skill because every bird build as per their design But nest is not the soul end or best beginning .
Education teaches rest values and experience teaches new values.
Marriage:
Marriage is a minimum needed control to make the natural, traditional and modern way of life.
Mutual sharing, caring is must to undergo life process than irrigating naturally or artificially like few animals.
Marriage of a men or a woman is not a constraint for the leading role of a family, organization or empires.
Being Selvi is not the solution for women empowerment. A men or woman who got married need not to be a dummy role to give the lead to others. Every body has their own space in the marriage family. and its organization.
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